Thursday, September 14, 2006

Random thoughts and news stories

What an interesting day.

I had some great conversations with friends and family members about what is possible in life.

And I spoke to friends who were quite concerned about the well being of people they care about.

What is common to both sets of conversations is that the people in our lives do matter. Our connections to them matter. And that we want to make a difference in the world.

I'm reminded of a passage for some reason that my cousin shared with me once:

I will close this chapter with some general thoughts on addiction. We all come into the world with wounds; they come with human birth, no matter what kind of family we grow up in, no matter what kind of society we live in. Much of our human seeking is a search for healing. We long for a sense of completeness and wholeness and for an end to craving. Most often we look for satisfaction outside of ourselves. That is the root of addiction. Ironically, whatever satisfaction we gain from food, drugs, sex, money, and other "sources" of pleasure really comes from inside us. We project our power onto external substances and activities, allowing them to make us feel better temporarily. This is a strange sort of magic. We give our power away in order to achieve a transient sense of wholeness, then suffer because the objects of our craving seem to have power over us. Addiction can be cured only when we consciously experience this process, reclaim our power, and realize that wounds must be healed from within. Suffering and craving goad us into action, forcing us to discover who we are, to identify with our true selves.

-- From Natural Health, Natural Medicine by Andrew Weil, MD

What it speaks to me is that we are more powerful than we cop to. That we really are at the source of our lives, even if we are unconsciously creating a reality that has us occur to ourselves as powerless. And that we can make a difference, not only in our own small world, but in the larger one as well.

And if you want to make a difference, here are some articles to read that might give you reason to act:

2 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great article!! I hope it gets some of us thinking.

Some of my friends are taking steps right now to cut back on their drinking, and I hope they know how much this inspires me. I'm also hoping I'll have the chance to open a dialogue with a close friend of mine about the lure of drug usage in the gay community.

This will make two of my close friends in the past year that I've been concerned about using crystal meth. My first friend I only heard about afterward, but my second friend I witnessed in person. It literally shook me so hard, and scared me so bad that I broke down and made another friend make sure he was o.k. I NEVER want to experience that again.

This article also applies to me personally. I'm searching for the power within for my happiness, rather than relying on external sources like food, drugs, alcohol, and even other people. I really don't like relying on other things or people to make me happy.

This article couldn't be timed any better. Thanks!!

10:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great article!! I hope it gets some of us thinking.

Some of my friends are taking steps right now to cut back on their drinking, and I hope they know how much this inspires me. I'm also hoping I'll have the chance to open a dialogue with a close friend of mine about the lure of drug usage in the gay community.

This will make two of my close friends in the past year that I've been concerned about using crystal meth. My first friend I only heard about afterward, but my second friend I witnessed in person. It literally shook me so hard, and scared me so bad that I broke down and made another friend make sure he was o.k. I NEVER want to experience that again.

This article also applies to me personally. I'm searching for the power within for my happiness, rather than relying on external sources like food, drugs, alcohol, and even other people. I really don't like relying on other things or people to make me happy.

This article couldn't be timed any better. Thanks!!

10:18 AM  

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